Self-Criticism Won’t Quit? Confidently Shut.It.Down

Is your Self-Criticism only getting worse? Overthinking a million ways you suck your mind's go-to? If your self-criticism cycles JUST won't quit, it's not bc you need more self-compassion, self-love or a less tragic childhood. It's simply bc you're focusing on the wrong problem and by misidentifying your problem, you're missing out on all the super simple solutions. That silliness ends NOW. Discover the 8 undercover forces driving your self-criticism cycles AND exactly how to solve each one.

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Ep. 212 Timestamps

00:00-Identifying WHY You Self-Criticize
02:46-The ROOT of Self-Critical Pattern No. 1
05:10-How ADHD Feeds Off Self-Criticism
07:20-Why Am I So Hard On Myself? SOLVED
09:55-When Your Career Demands Your Self Critic
11:45-Solutions That Actually Work for Overly Critical Achievers
13:25-Criticizing Yourself to Create Change
16:45-Hyper Critical Power Dynamics
18:33-How To Stop Beating Yourself Up

Truth + Accuracy In This Episode Is Brought To You By:

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