Smart, ambitious, driven perfectionistic people don't want to be a victims, yet 99% of high achievers (unknowingly) are. Discover all the ways victim mentality seeps into your identity and creeps into how you show up at work, in your relationship, parenting, etc. I'm showing you step-by-step exactly how to raise your
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Listen to the FULL episode to learn:
- Are you playing the victim?
- Importance of playful curiosity and proactive problem-solving
- Are you making commitments Out of Love or Obligation
- How to deal with people who play the victim
- Perception Point for Leaders vs Perception Points for Victims
Episode 143 Timestamps
00:00-Playing the Victim
06:15-Discovering the Gold: Ownership Mindset Guide
07:43-How To Stop Being A Victim At Work
10:49-How to deal with someone who plays the victim
14:41-Shift Your Mindset: Embracing Growth Through Challenges
17:12- How Leaders Break Free from Victim Mentality
21:54- Building Resilience Daily and finding diamonds in the mud
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